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“Fibro-my-what?” Let me explain… All about the health condition FIBROMYALGIA


Let me explain…

The 12th of May is ‘Fibromyalgia Awareness Day’ – So what better way to become aware, than by reading this blog post!

You write it: FIBROMYALGIA

You say it: Fi – bro – my – al – gee – ah.

The origins of the word:

“fibro”for fibrous tissues such as tendons & ligaments

“my”indicating muscles

“algia” meaning pain.

Also referred to as:   FMS (Fibromyalgia Syndrome)

“Fibromyalgia is a chronic condition of widespread muscle pain, profound fatigue & sleep disorder, along with many other symptoms.”

According to the National Fibromyalgia Association3-6% of the world’s population has Fibromyalgia syndrome. 

For those of you who follow my blog will know, after having the mumps in my final year of university I just couldn’t get my mojo back! I was diagnosed with ‘Post-Viral Fatigue’ which then brought on Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Then two years later, November 2006 I was debilitated as I had developed the condition ‘Fibromyalgia’ at the then age of 23.

The amount of information about the condition has increased dramatically over this past 11 & a half years (no need to look at the sentence before and do the math and try to work out my current age…yeah I know some of you were going to, as I would too!! haha! – I’ll save you the sum, I’m a blessed 34 now.)

The Consultants physical examination for Fibromyalgia shows pain in all four quadrants of the body. Pain in at least 11 out of 18 identified ‘tender point sites’ being spots of extreme tenderness when they are pressed. (I had 18 out of 18 – literally, everything hurt even each finger and toe!) However, this is just testing for the outward signs of extreme pain.

Research has now identified that people with Fibromyalgia have altered amounts of certain chemicals in the nervous system and hormone deficiencies. Specifically the neurotransmitter ‘Substance P’ which is found in spinal fluid and is responsible for transmitting pain signals to the brain. People with Fibromyalgia were found to have three times the amount of Substance P – ultimately sending three times the amount of pain messages to the brain. The effect of this is ‘disordered sensory processing’ basically the brain registers pain when others might just experience a slight ache or stiffness.

Over the past decade, all over the world, there has been an increasing amount of research like this that has gone into the condition. From this, advancements in how it can be detected and treated have happened (although a longed-for cure isn’t given.)

what is fibromyalgia - helens fibromyalgia awareness support group on facebook

How do official health bodies describe Fibromyalgia?

Here is an official explanation of the condition and then I will talk about it in my own words as a sufferer:

“The exact cause of Fibromyalgia is unknown, but it’s thought to be related to abnormal levels of certain chemicals in the brain and changes in the way the central nervous system (brain, spinal cord and nerves) processes pain messages carried around the body.

The central nervous system (brain, spinal cord and nerves) transmits information all over your body through a network of specialised cells. Changes in the way this system works may explain why Fibromyalgia results in constant feelings of, and extreme sensitivity to, pain.

It’s also suggested that some people are more likely to develop Fibromyalgia because of genes inherited from their parents.

In many cases, the condition appears to be triggered by trauma or a physically or emotionally stressful event, such as: an injury or infection / giving birth / having an operation / the breakdown of a relationship / the death of a loved one, etc.”

NHS National Health Service UK

Explaining the health condition ‘Fibromyalgia’ from a sufferers point of view:

You know that hangover feeling you have the next morning after a long night out on the town drinking way more than you should have? Well, imagine having that hangover, the body stiffness, muscle aching and that run over feeling, constantly every day from the minute you wake up! That’s what people with severe Fibromyalgia have to deal with 24/7.

People with Fibromyalgia have overactive nerve endings. More of their nerves are ‘switched on’ and are over sensitive. So stimuli that wouldn’t usually cause the body a problem, can cause the person to feel pain and discomfort. This can feel like widespread pain / burning sensations / throbbing / stiffness / aching muscles / muscle spasms.

7 types of fibromyalgia pain - helens fibromyalgia awareness support group on facebook

Unbalanced levels of chemicals in the brain and nervous system also result in hypersensitivity, pain messages to the brain being amplified and ‘sensory overload’ from surrounding stimuli such as light, sound, touch and other environmental factors.

Hormone imbalances play a significant role too:

  • Melatonin plays a role with the sleep issues
  • Serotonin affects our circadian rhythm, it’s needed for deep sleep and its deficiency linked to major depression.
  • Cortisol as too much of this stress hormone can put our bodies into a constant state of ‘flight or fight’ mode from chronic stress. also plays a role in adrenal fatigue, reducing inflammation, blood sugar levels etc.

An in-depth scientific research paper to read for more information is: Dysfunctional Neurotransmitter Systems in Fibromyalgia (click on name of article to open it in a separate tab)

Debilitating fatigue and Sleep Disorders also play a big role in the syndrome, both causing cognitive difficulties (trouble concentrating or thinking of words – also known as ‘Fibro Fog’ or ‘Brain Fog’), headaches/migraines and sleep deprivation.

These symptoms can increase if you stay in one position for too long when sitting, standing or esp after sleeping. Common activities that cause problems for sufferers are things you may find easy. Such as dressing, showering, washing up, drying your hair, sitting at your desk at work, vacuuming, walking short or long distances, stairs, carrying shopping bags, the list goes on…

I took normal things for granted before i got chronically ill. Helen's fibromyalgia support group on facebook
Remember to read my other blog post “5 life lessons from chronic illness. What over a decade with Fibromyalgia has taught me” (Click on the blog title to open this post in another window)

These everyday activities suddenly feel like mountains to climb and marathons to run. They can leave you exhausted and send so many pain signals to your brain that the pain is escalated into what we call a ‘Fibro Flare’ and many become bed bound for a period of time.

The severity of the pain can vary daily usually depending on how much you do physically, as the pain seems to get worse after physical exertion. Symptoms can change location in muscles all over the body frequently, depending on which muscles you use during daily activities.

Here are some Aggravating factors that can all contribute to symptom flare-ups.:

  • Changes in weather
  • cold or draughty environments
  • hormonal fluctuations (premenstrual and menopausal states)
  • stress
  • depression & anxiety
  • over-exertion
  • emotional trauma or reacting to unexpected life events
  • diet and vitamin deficiencies
  • toxic overload and chemical sensitivities etc.

living with fibromyalgia. helens fibromyalgia awareness support group on facebook

How is Fibromyalgia treated?

I was told when diagnosed that most patients can expect to have this problem lifelong yet in some cases it can go away for good or flare up again at different times in life.

However, I’m proof that worthwhile improvements can be obtained with appropriate treatment such as pain medication, physiotherapy, hydrotherapy, acupuncture, relaxation techniques, sleep improvement, massage, exercise, heat/cold therapy, rest, pacing, reducing stress, supplements, psychological support, a healthy and balanced diet, etc. A gentle and suitable, regular exercise routine is advised although painful, to help with trying to maintain muscle strength and movement.

As well as deterioration which I’ve experienced, the condition can also improve over time too as I’ve also experienced in the last couple of years. This is with appropriate treatment as well as medical advice; meaning you can increase your daily activities and become more active in life, it is possible for some. However, you need to pace yourself, keep up with your prescribed exercise routines, medication and other treatments that make up your own care plan.

“The goal is to live life in spite of fibromyalgia rather than having no life because of it. Take each day as it comes & make the most of it together with your loved ones.”

~ Quoting Helen’s Journey

Sadly, common painkillers you’d usually use to combat pain are generally ineffective against Fibromyalgia pain. However, there are tablets that doctors can prescribe to try to help, which may work differently in individual cases – such as tablets that try to block the pain signals to the brain or a form of morphine, etc. Medication is more commonly prescribed to help with the symptoms, not the cause though, such as medication to address the sleep disturbances caused by Fibromyalgia; this can then help with fatigue levels, resulting in altering pain levels. It is one big ongoing cycle as the cause is still present.

Fibromyalgia is a complex condition with a number of other conditions that can occur alongside it, making it very complicated to treat. Exactly what works for one person may not be the best treatment for another, as we all have different levels of brain chemicals inside us to make reactions to treatment more personalised in each case (and why some prescribed painkillers or pain signal blockers work differently for each person.)

Gut health also plays a huge role in our health – after all 80% of our immune system is stored in our gut!

In my opinion, the best treatment for Fibromyalgia is through a multidisciplinary approach, using medications, complementary and supportive therapies, and lifestyle adaptations. It is rare that one approach alone can manage Fibromyalgia in the best way possible. It isn’t just about physical health it is also about mental health, emotional health and gut health – as we are all three; mind, body and spirit.

REMEMBER: Just because one treatment doesn’t work for an individual Fibromyalgia patient, it doesn’t mean that there isn’t something else that will.

Alternative therapies also need to address our mental health such as breathing exercises and relaxation techniques to address muscle tension, stress and anxiety levels. Emotional help like speaking to a counsellor or joining a support group can help also – I have set up my own support group on Facebook where I post supportive photos, interesting web links, etc. Search for my group on Facebook: HELEN’S FIBROMYALGIA AWARENESS & CHRONIC ILLNESS SUPPORT GROUP. Or click HERE to join the group directly.

Helen's Fibromyalgia Awareness and Support Group on facebook for chronic illness sufferers
Find my support group on Facebook, it is positive, uplifting and encouraging! Click to join:

How can Support Groups help people deal with Chronic Illness?

Being diagnosed with the condition myself as a young adult, I felt it important to raise awareness especially for other young ladies who found themselves in the same boat as me. Although men can be affected too, about 9 out of 10 cases of Fibromyalgia are in WOMEN!

This is why, after being diagnosed & not finding much support was available to me, in Nov 2008 I set up a support group on the social media platform Facebook. My group named ‘Helens FIBROMYALGIA AWARENESS GROUP (also relevant 4 other chronic illness)’ now has 656 worldwide members (and hopefully a few more people will join after reading this article too… just click on the group name for it to open in a new window)


Because of its debilitating nature, Fibromyalgia has a large impact on everyone connected with a sufferer, from family and friends to employers. Family & friends etc, can help you live with fibromyalgia by learning as much as possible about the condition and then can show an understanding. This is why loved ones of sufferers are members of my support group not just sufferers themselves, as they need support and advice too.

Fibromyalgia may be invisible – but I’m not!

Fibromyalgia is also known as an ‘INVISIBLE ILLNESS’ as looking at someone with it, you would not necessarily see their suffering or realise they had painful muscles underneath their clothes & over sensitive nerves running throughout their body! That’s why awareness & having an open discussion like this is so important; there may be many people out there with this condition who are suffering alone, in silence, who may just need some advice, information, or encouragement to seek medical help.

“But you look fine”

To others, you may look fine and as too many of you, I look like a normal, happy person or just smiley Hel’s in my Instagram pictures ;-). However, although you have better days when you can do more activities – you then have bad days recovering & paying for doing normal things that those people don’t see! You know those sayings “Don’t judge a book by its cover” and “don’t judge what you don’t know” and “if you don’t know then get to know”…they all spring to mind!

I encourage you to go and read the poem I wrote all about unfair judgement: “Never judge a book by its cover” (click on poem name to open it in a new window)

Not every pain is as clear as a broken arm in a cast – awareness of invisible conditions is needed so badly! Just look at how some people go mad at someone using a disabled parking bay if they aren’t in a chair or have a stick! Disabilities aren’t that simple!

However, to be honest, you do get used to the pain & trying to push through daily life & when normal activities such as going out for a friend’s birthday comes up, you have to limit activity beforehand and plan out pain relief just so you can go. Yet, you go knowing that you will suffer and pay for it afterwards in pain and discomfort!

It’s because of my personality (& my Christian faith also) that I feel I am now able to try to put on a happier face & try to live life again the best I can (although it’s far from the norm) rather than just being a big ball of pain not taking part in life – like I did at my lowest point after diagnosis. It was a dark, dark, time of depression and debilitation that had me give up on life – but I’ve worked so hard to not go back to that place.

Watch me talk about my experience in this video as I’m interviewed for a project called ‘I AM WARRIOR… MY STORY’ by the company Life Balance Arts. Click here for the Full video via Facebook: HELEN’S JOURNEY READS HER SPOKEN WORD ON BEING A CHRONIC ILLNESS WARRIOR & SHARES HER STORY

Or for a shorter clip of me reading my spoken word piece on being a chronic illness warrior, click HERE!

i have an invisible illness yet i smile. helens fibromyalgia awareness support group on facebook

Fibromyalgia – The invisible condition that you or someone you know may be suffering from and need to seek help for!

Personally, as a suffer myself, my piece of advice would be to seek help and medical advice. Some GP’s may not be fully informed about Fibromyalgia so ask to be referred to a pain clinic at your local hospital to see a Consultant and for treatments, a Rheumatologist or Physiotherapist.

If you aren’t happy with the treatment you are getting or the GP won’t refer you then contact places for advice (in England that will be PALS – Patient Advice and Liaison Service) Even if you only do one thing after reading this article, ring a helpline or look at listed websites for more information…



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45 thoughts on ““Fibro-my-what?” Let me explain… All about the health condition FIBROMYALGIA

    1. Hiya, thanks for your comment. So glad from your friend sharing with you, you then read this post – that is a great show of support and understanding for her ❤

      so true – Cant blame people who don't know anything about it, but so much ignorance from some whose loved ones even suffer from it and they don't believe in its severity 😦

      hopefully this post and others can help spread understanding and awareness 🙂

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  1. This is such a great post, full of so much information. I have actually been seeing my gp and chiroparactor/osteopath for over a year, they have suggested I may have this. I am undergoing more tests at the moment. I have many symptoms and would just love them to give me an answer. Xx Thank you for this post.


    1. Hiya, so glad the post gave you more information and pointers for things doctors can investigate further for you etc.
      Yes getting an official diagnosis helps as you then know exactly what you are dealing with – I hope they have answers for you soon but really good they are investigating other possibilities that can be closely linked too.

      Are you on facebook? be lovely if you joined my support group – its for people with a range of chronic illnesses not just fibromyalgia


  2. Interesting! I learned something new about Fibermyalgia! When I was younger, my mom was diagnosed with it, but as I got older she started to describe it as actual bone pain she was having. Turns out we both have an extreme case of Rheumatory Athritis (they also think we have a weird version of Albinoism). Because of that wack diagnosis (from multiple doctors), I almost didn’t believe it existed (terrible, I know, I feel bad about that), but now that it’s broken down, I understand it more! Thank you for the helpful and informative post!

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    1. Im glad they finally got to the bottom of your health problems & got a correct diagnosis in the end 🙈
      I’m glad my post was informative and educational for you & just shows the awwreness day worked as now you understand or believe in the condition more than befire 👌☄👏

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  3. Have you tried essential oils?? I’ve only got a chance to read this blog, but I know a dear friend of mine struggling everyday with the same thing! I gave her some oils and she called me crying saying that it was the first time in awhile she was pain free…. just a thought. Check into them for sure if you haven’t already!

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  4. Please, please please…everyone told Fibromyalgia needs to see a Lyme Literate doctor. Majority of people actually have Lyme and many
    Co-infections, not the catch all Fibromyalgia label. Go to Or test yourself. Its true!! I blog about my story to help others. I wanted to know the cause. I was undiagnosed for 20 years and I hate to see anyone else go through what I did. If you have a chronic illness and are told there is not known cause then leave that doctor. I learned the truth after naively believing that my symptoms had no known cause. Sadly, chronic Lyme is not a recognized disease and a negative test does not mean you do not have it. Get the facts! I wish everyone much success on their healing journey. ❤️💚

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    1. Yes this has been discussed in my chronic illness support group on Facebook too with some people turning out to have Lyme desease. It’s good to share information & people can make more informed decisions about doctors and tests etc.
      Thank you for sharing ☺️

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      1. Glad to hear more people getting the truth out. Gotta love social media. I hope everyone can see an LLMD because regular doctors are not educated in it. Sadly, LLMD’s are not usually covered by insurance. One Lyme doctor said 100% of his patients told fibromyalgia, MS and a few other things all tested positive for Lyme. It’s very complicated. It’s a clinical diagnosis and that is why you must see an LLMD to rule it out.

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  5. Wow! So much helpful info. Thank you for bresking it down all in one place. I did not know all that you go through when you have fibromyalgia. This will help me connect with people in my life that have it. Sharing information and stories like yours helps others. Your experience can help someone else endure.

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    1. Hi Lydia, thank you so much for the feedback! It’s great to know the post is helping to inform non-sufferers too – which as you say can help with understanding for your loved ones who are sufferers.
      So glad I share my story and speak out, even if it only helps you with how you interact with people in your life who have it – that is worth it to me! 👏

      Please feel free to join my Facebook Awareness Group also or share the link with the sufferers in your life

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    1. Thank you Pamela my fellow Fibromyalgia fighter & twice as long as me💪💪 Advocacy is 1 thing it defo can’t take away from us 😉👍
      Thank you for reading & your encouraging feedback too 🙂💜


  6. This is such a helpful and informative post Helen. I have heard of Fibromyalgia before, but never knew much about the condition. This is really educational and a great way to help others with the same condition. Over 500 members in your Facebook group is fantastic and such a wonderful way to support others, thank you for sharing your experience and raising awareness ❤ xx

    Bexa |

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  7. Very informative. I learned a bit about fibromyalgia about two years ago after I found out a friend of mine has it. We need more posts like this that explain various diseases and ailments in a way that everyone can understand. I think it would really help a lot of people, both those who suffer from them and those who have not heard of them before.

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    1. Thank you Sarah, I totally agree and that was my drive behind writing this post as I saw the need for it. Lovely you learnt about it when your friend was diagnosed, a good sign of support for her. Please feel free to give your friend my blog link & also the name of my support group on Facebook as it is a good place to feel understood & encouraged. Search ‘HELEN’S FIBROMYALGIA AWARENESS & CHRONIC ILLNESS SUPPORT GROUP.


  8. Wow, what a great post – so informative! I’ve learnt so much reading through this. I had heard about this condition before, but I didn’t really know too much about it. You are definitely creating awareness about it! I can’t imagine what it’s like for you – it must be so tough at times. I am happy to hear that you have seen improvements! Also over 500 people in your group is amazing – I can imagine it’s a lovely place to support each other 🙂 Thanks for sharing and providing such great information!


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    1. Thanks for reading and commenting Amy. It’s so good to hear the post has done it’s job is spreading awareness & understanding.
      One lady posted a photo in my support group of the nails she had done for Fibromyalgia Awareness day – 4 nails on each hand purple glitter nails & the 5th on each hand was white nail polish with the purple awareness ribbon painted on. They looked BRILLIANT! Made me think of your insta pics – maybe there’s an idea for you for May 12th next year 😉 😉

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  9. Thank you for sharing this, helping to make it more well known. My aunt was diagnosed with it about 10 years ago and at the time there wasnt much information about it. This post changes that because there is all the information you need to know after a diagnosis which will help so many people.

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